How smart are you?
It’s a question we
all feel the pressure to prove our value for. Every test you sit, every exam
you write, every show you perform, and every speech you present carries this
hidden question. It’s a question you never see on the paper, but you feel it by
the butterflies in your stomach, the sweat on your palms and the quiver in your
voice. And it’s really daunting.
Throughout school, college/TAFE/University, you put all your energy into writing
dozens of assignments to prove how smart you are. You’re conditioned to think –
no, believe – if you don’t get great
scores on your finals, and graduate with a good OP/GPA, you won’t have as good
a future as the “nerds” in your class. You’re taught if you don’t take the
hardest science and maths classes, you’re not really a genius like they are. So you limit yourself to
average standards because you don’t understand calculus and chemistry. If you
ask me, I think it’s ridiculous.
I spent over half
my schooling life thinking the same thing. I always thought I wasn’t smart enough, because I didn’t catch onto
algebra as quickly as the ‘smart kids’. Then I finally realised it wasn’t the
case at all. Let me make something very clear: just because you can’t do what
society tells you ‘smart people’ can do, does not mean you aren’t smart, too. And don’t get me wrong, if you’re
one of those math geniuses I’m referring to, you should be proud of what your
brain can do. I totally respect that ability. I just don’t think the rest of us
should be dumbed down because our brains work differently.
The fact is, if
you’re better at English and arty stuff than maths and science, it just means your
brain works differently. The left side of the brain is what you use when you solve
mathematical problems, and all your logical thought processing. The right side
of your brain is where your creativity and artistic flair is produced. You can
train both sides of your brain, but one will always be stronger than the other.
So if you’re at the stage where you’ve realised you’re pretty bad at Art but
you kick ass in Physics, you’re probably a Left-brainer.
And there’s
nothing wrong with being stronger either way. In fact, if we weren’t, the world
wouldn’t have all the things it does. It would either be full of art or full of
architecture. They’re both great, but could you imagine if one or the other
were missing? Life would simply be incomplete. That’s why it’s so important to
remember that, no matter who you are or what you’re good at, you shouldn’t
compare yourself to other people’s strengths. In fact, everyone should
celebrate the diversity of talents other people have to offer the world. Everyone
is good at different things, and we need all of the world’s wonderful brains to
make it complete.
So forget what people
tell you, because some of the most successful people to ever live were once
told they would never amount to anything. Walt Disney was fired from a
newspaper for “lacking imagination,” and Michael Jordan was kicked out of his
high school basketball team. If they had let that stop them, they wouldn’t have
achieved the things they did. Need I say more? You can’t let what other people
say determine your ability, your intelligence, and most of all, your amazing
potential for success, whatever the word means to you.
Let me tell you
something: you are good enough. You’re
good enough because God made you exactly the way He saw perfect, and gave you
everything you need to make the most
of the genius you possess, regardless of the form it comes in. I’ll tell you
right now, I couldn’t have passed Maths B in grade 11 to save my life, but I
always knew I was great at English, so I worked my ass off and topped the
subject for five years straight.
What am I saying?
Find what you’re good at, and what you really love to do, and become excellent at it. Talents are like muscles: everyone
has them, but you need to exercise them to make them stronger. And let’s face
it, this day and age won’t promote you to excellence unless you put in the
time. There are too many people on the planet.
I enjoyed the read. But honestly I haven't spoken to you since primary school and I dont use social media. It would be good to catch up tho.
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